Damned If You Do. Damned If You Don’t.

Do you want to quit and not want to quit drinking at the same time?
Everyone I speak with about taking control of their drinking deals with these conflicting desires at some level.

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Aren’t You Getting A Little Too Old For Roller Coasters?

Aren’t you getting a little too old to be riding on a roller coaster?
I don’t mean the roller coasters at the amusement park.
I’m talking about the up-and-down life you get from not having control of your drinking.

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Are You Using The Right Tool For The Job?

Have you ever grabbed a tool from your toolbox to fix something but couldn’t fix it?
Then a disturbing thought occurs to you.
“Maybe this isn’t the right tool?”

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Meditation Will Help You Handle Your Urge To Overdrink & Overeat

Close your eyes.
Try to keep your body still.
Focus on your breathing.
Breathe normally and count.
1 … 2 …

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Step Into Your Circle Of Excellence

Wouldn’t it be great if you could just turn into a superhero whenever you’re facing a difficult situation?

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Reaction or Response?

Which one was it?
Did you react?
Or did you respond?
“What’s the difference,” you ask.
Usually everything.

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That Little Itch
Should Be Telling You Something

Tell me if you’ve ever noticed this before.
This is a tough one to see.
But if you look hard enough, it’s there.
Ask yourself this question the next time you get upset, angry, or annoyed with what somebody else does…

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How To Get More Stuff

When we aren’t where we want to be or don’t have the things we want, we tend to approach having the new thing from a place of lack and absence.
We start rooted in a negative mindset.
While it’s natural to start from here, it isn’t helpful to stay here.

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Quitting Drinking Changes Everything

The benefits are greater than I expected.
I had no idea how impactful changing just one thing would be.
Everything is different.
Every part of my life has transformed in ways I didn’t anticipate.

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Let’s Play Jenga
&
Change Your Life

I love to help people change their lives.
It’s the most rewarding thing I do.
One of the best ways to explain life coaching is to use the Jenga example.

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